30 Days of Being a Love Machine: Day 30
Day 30 Challenge:
Tell someone you love that you're such an awesome being and why without any hesitation, shame, guilt, or judgment. BE AN AWESOME YOU!
Wait, wait, wait...I thought we were supposed to keep humble. yes, YES. Truth, you speak. Yet, we must also be confident in our awesomeness. David G. Myers of Psychology Today states it is "The Secret of Happiness". I’m not suggesting you do this to everyone, all day, every day. We know how that went for Kanye…
You will speak of your awesomeness (you have an overflow of reasons thanks to the challenges on your days twenty-one, twenty-two, twenty-three, and twenty-seven) to one person (for now) that loves you. If their response is negative, know that you love yourself enough that their approval of your statement isn't necessary.
We are ridding ourselves of our old programming that suggests we talk ourselves down and belittle ourselves. This is the ultimate test to show yourself that you fully love yourself and those around you.
You’ve done a lot of imposing work on your comfort zone to be in the heart space you are now. This is your congratulations for everything you’ve committed to for these 30 Days of Being a Love Machine. Celebrate that aloud!
Right. But, you’ve never done that before. So…
You know I got you.
You can simply speak to a friend in-person or on the phone. Don’t text this one. Don’t whisper this one. This is not an in-your-mind- exercise. Talk to someone. You can talk about anything. Really, you’re just going to add this into a conversation, naturally. They’ll either ask how you are or ask what’s new. When they do, you can say things like:
“I found my awesomeness. I’m so glad that I now know that I’m…”
“I’m really awesome! Like, REALLY awesome. I know that I’m…”
“After that Love Machine challenge I told you about, I realize that I’m an awesome person. I’m so glad that I can say with confidence now that I’m…”
Get that power of three going. Those points of ellipsis (dot-dot-dots) are representing the three points you will make about your awesomeness. You can go on for more than three, but you don’t want to overwhelm your friend with your awesomeness. They are more than welcome to join in and compliment you, but three must float from your lips with confidence.
After this last challenge is completed, you may decide that you want to do this again and bring some friends or family along. You can continue to make any of these a regular practice in your life (daily, weekly, monthly, annually). Either way, the only thing I ask is that you continue to move through your heart space however you see fit.
The purpose for 30 Days of Being a Love Machine was to spread more love around our friends, family, selves, and most importantly, the world. When you are of love, it’s easier to react that way to any and every situation in your life and the lives of others. You don’t have to drop being a fighter to be a lover; you can now engage with the intention of love.
I greatly appreciate your joining in giving your full effort for this challenge; I know it wasn’t easy. THANK YOU. Alright, Love Machines, let's affect this world wholeheartedly!
Love and mass blessings to you ALL!