If the Shoes Don't Fit

There are 2 polar opposite understandings of who we are in this Universe. One understanding is that we are insignificant specks on this planet, which is a tiny part of a vast galaxy. On the opposite end, everything we do is important because of the Butterfly Effect and the understanding that we run this thang.

Somewhere in between is where I sit; Who we are and what we do is significant for our personal and universal energy, impacting the happenings on Earth because we consider our speck to be an important contribution to the galaxy. BOOM.

When believing that you and what you do is insignificant, it's harmful to your self-esteem as you will either shrink yourself into nothing or not take accountability for anything you do. Many who feel they don’t matter act like they don’t, which is dangerous for that person and all around them. They hinder all the awesomeness that they are and that wonderfulness they are capable of. They shut off their gifts and can delve into unhealthy habits.

Many who feel they don’t matter act like they don’t, which is dangerous for that person and all around them.

For those who have an inflated ego, they are the only thing that matters and it’s nearly impossible for them to think selflessly. They can become callous and not be open to work in co-creation others unless it immediately benefits them. This also means that their gifts become more important than anybody else period.

Once you really decide to forgive, trust, and be in connection with the Universe and your experience, you typically end up anywhere in the middle and desire true peace in all that you are and all that you do. THIS is a beautiful thang, lemme tell you. When you’ve got the previous trials down and you’re ready to move forward, you’ll come to understand that it’s your time to expand. Stop wearing shoes that don't fit and buy some fly kicks. Stop playing small and play in a way that is helpful to all. You’re expanding your consciousness and the ability to truly hone in on your gifts.

Expanding gives you the opportunity to be the best version of you. Those who've been afraid are invited to step into their power. Those who've only focused on their power are highly encouraged to see the importance of others. And, then, of course, there’s everything in between.

Once you step into this role of expansion, some people may call you selfish if you’re constantly used to giving of yourself to others until there’s nothing left to give. You may be called strange or weird for opening yourself up to other views and experiences. Just keep in mind that everything you’re going through is to assist you on your path and let happiness be your default emotion.

[L]et happiness be your default emotion.

You’ll get rid of unhealthy habits. You’ll learn lessons that have you thriving instead of just surviving. You’ll experience gifts/talents that you’ve been shutting down due to fear or pleasing others. It’ll feel awesome to give yourself what you deserve and to help others with what they desire.

Getting to experience your solitude as an important and beautiful way to get to know your true self. Your true self is incomparable to anything you’ve known before. You may have had instances of this in the past, but the more you are open to this experience, the more you grow; you’re EXPANDING. In these moments is when you start to truly experience Divine and all the awesomeness that is.

Your true self is incomparable to anything you’ve known before.

WARNING: This can be addicting. For those who are willing, you’ll move forward quickly. Shying away from this will create an uncomfortable environment for you (like trying to fit into shoes that you've grown out of).

Beautiful Beings, I want you to understand this spiritual expansion as you would that of growing from a child into an adult. It can feel a little awkward. You're not sure what your style is yet. You're growing out of your clothes, which can be a little painful. And, now you need to buy clothes that fit. You start to find your peoples - those that have the same understandings that you do. Then, you decide that you are going to feel amazing in your new body and WERK. YES, all that.

Truly venture out into being yourself. Maybe you didn't feel you had that option when you were physically growing. But, now you are spiritually growing. This is a new arena. Have trust. Have fun. And have your heart open along the way.

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